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Wall Street Journal
New
Approach Focuses on Helping People Regulate Their Emotions
By SUE SHELLENBARGER
Jan. 7, 2014 8:03 p.m.
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Several new studies help
explain what's happening in the brain when people procrastinate. WSJ's Sue
Shellenbarger unpacks the latest research and software engineer Sean Gilbertson
shares his story. Photo: Getty Images.
Procrastinators, take
note: If you've tried building self-discipline and you're still putting things
off, maybe you need to try something different. One new approach: Check your
mood.
Often, procrastinators
attempt to avoid the anxiety or worry aroused by a tough task with activities
aimed at repairing their mood, such as checking Facebook or taking a nap. But
the pattern, which researchers call "giving in to feel good," makes
procrastinators feel worse later, when they face the consequences of missing a
deadline or making a hasty, last-minute effort, says Timothy Pychyl (rhymes
with Mitchell), an associate professor of psychology at Carleton University in
Ottawa, Canada, and a researcher on the topic.
Increasingly,
psychologists and time-management consultants are focusing on a new strategy: helping
procrastinators see how attempts at mood repair are sabotaging their efforts
and learn to regulate their emotions in more productive ways.
Time Travel: If you
are rebelling against the feeling of having to work, try projecting yourself
into the future. Imagine the good feelings you will have if you stop
procrastinating and finish a project (or the bad feelings you will have if you
don't finish). Kyle T. Webster
'Just Get Started': If
you are feeling frightened of possible failure, just get started. Tell yourself
you don't have to do the whole project. Just do the first one or two steps on
it. Kyle T. Webster
Forgive Yourself: If
you are feeling guilty about procrastinating, stop beating yourself up. Replace
the negative thoughts with something more positive. Kyle T. Webster
Easy Things First: If
you are feeling a lot of dread about one task in particular on your to-do list,
start with something else, preferably the task you feel most like doing. The
momentum you gain will help you start the toughest task later. Kyle T. Webster
The new approach is
based on several studies in the past two years showing that negative emotions
can derail attempts at self-control. It fills a gap among established
time-management methods, which stress behavioral changes such as adopting a new
organizing system or doing exercises to build willpower.
Gisela Chodos had a
habit of procrastinating on cleaning the interior of her car until it became so
littered with toys, snack wrappers, fast-food bags, pencils and other stuff
that she was embarrassed to park it in a public lot or offer anyone a ride,
says Ms. Chodos, a Salt Lake City mother of two school-age children and
part-time computer-science student.
She came across
podcasts by Dr. Pychyl in 2012 and realized she was just trying to make herself
feel better when she told herself she would feel more like tackling a task
later. She says, "I am trying to run away from the feelings and avoid the
discomfort"—the anxiety she often feels that her work won't be good enough
or that someone will disapprove.
"Emotion is at
the core," Ms. Chodos says. "Just knowing that gives me a little bit
of fight, to say, 'Fine, I'm feeling discomfort, but I'm going to feel more
discomfort later' " if the job is left undone. The insight has helped her
get around to cleaning her car more often, she says; "it's been a long
time since my car was so bad that I freaked out at the thought someone might
look inside."
Researchers have come
up with a playbook of strategies to help procrastinators turn mood repair to
their advantage. Some are tried-and-true classics: Dr. Pychyl advises
procrastinators to "just get started, and make the threshold for getting
started quite low." Procrastinators are more likely to put the technique
to use when they understand how mood repair works, says Dr. Pychyl, author of a
2013 book, "Solving the Procrastination Puzzle." He adds, "A
real mood boost comes from doing what we intend to do—the things that are
important to us."
He also advises
procrastinators to practice "time travel"—projecting themselves into
the future to imagine the good feelings they will have after finishing a task,
or the bad ones they will have if they don't. This remedies procrastinators'
tendency to get so bogged down in present anxieties and worries that they fail
to think about the future, says Fuschia Sirois, a psychology professor at
Bishop's University in Sherbrooke, Quebec, and author of a forthcoming
4,000-person study on the topic.
Sean Gilbertson read
an earlier book by Dr. Pychyl in 2012 after trying other time-management
techniques such as keeping a daily log of his attitudes. The Minneapolis
software engineer says the techniques didn't go deep enough to help him see how
his emotions were blocking action and shift them in a more positive direction.
Using the time-travel technique, he asks himself, "What negative things
will happen if I procrastinate? Will it come up in my review? How will it
affect my reputation? Will it affect my raise and bonuses?"
He used the technique
recently when programming a prototype of a medical device to help doctors
prevent pressure sores in wheelchair-bound patients. He imagined the good
feelings he would have after completing the project well and pleasing his
client and his employer. He envisioned patients "living happily and
feeling better." The resulting positive feelings gave him the energy to
de-bug the device faster and finish the three-month project on time. The client
was so pleased that "just talking to them is a pleasure," he says.
About 20% of adults
claim to be chronic procrastinators, based on research by Joseph Ferrari, a
psychology professor at DePaul University, Chicago, and others. Other studies
suggest the rate among college students may be as high as 70%. The habit
predicts lower salaries and a higher likelihood of unemployment, according to a
recent study of 22,053 people co-authored by Dr. Ferrari.
Procrastination also
predicts such long-term problems as failing to save for retirement and
neglecting preventive health care. Studies show men are worse procrastinators
than women, and researchers suspect the habit plays a role in men's tendency to
complete fewer years of education.
Most procrastinators
beat themselves up even as they put things off, repeating negative thoughts
such as, "Why can't I do what I should be doing?" or, "I should
be more responsible," says Gordon Flett, a psychology professor at York
University in Toronto. "That negative internal dialogue reflects concerns
and doubts about themselves," Dr. Flett says.
One mood-repair
strategy, self-forgiveness, is aimed at dispelling the guilt and self-blame.
University freshmen who forgave themselves for procrastinating on studying for
the first exam in a course procrastinated less on the next exam, according to a
2010 study led by Michael Wohl, an associate professor of psychology at
Carleton.
Thomas Flint learned
about the technique by reading research on self-regulation, including studies
by Dr. Sirois and Dr. Pychyl. He put it to use after his family moved recently
to a new house in Sewell, N.J. Instead of beating himself up for failing to
unpack all the boxes stacked in his garage right away, Mr. Flint decided to
forgive himself and start with a single step. "I'd say, 'OK, I'm going to
take an hour, with a goal of getting the TV set up, and that's it,' " he
says; then he watched a TV show as a reward. Allowing himself to do the task in
stages, he says, is "a victory."
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